Sangjit Day ( Engagement Day )

In Chinese culture, 1 month before we're having the wedding day, usually we have one tradition called "Sangjit / Sangle" (read sanglei). This tradition is when two side of family, both bride and groom's family meet for the first time for formal occasion. Both family prepare things to be given to other family.

Usually, we prepare things like :
1. Oranges; usually we use 8, 16 or 24 oranges
2. Apples; usually use 8, 16 or 24 oranges
3. Red wine; usually use 2 bottles
4. And many more

In old tradition, oldies said that this tradition is just like selling their daughter to the groom's family. That's why if something happen, bride shouldn't go back to her family, and might solve the problem by herself.