Sangjit Day ( Engagement Day )

In Chinese culture, 1 month before we're having the wedding day, usually we have one tradition called "Sangjit / Sangle" (read sanglei). This tradition is when two side of family, both bride and groom's family meet for the first time for formal occasion. Both family prepare things to be given to other family.

Usually, we prepare things like :
1. Oranges; usually we use 8, 16 or 24 oranges
2. Apples; usually use 8, 16 or 24 oranges
3. Red wine; usually use 2 bottles
4. And many more

In old tradition, oldies said that this tradition is just like selling their daughter to the groom's family. That's why if something happen, bride shouldn't go back to her family, and might solve the problem by herself.

Paitu Day

Every Chinese have their own tradition. Me also do that tradition. 3 days before my wedding day, I do some tradition such made up my bed, my wardrobe, etc.

Chinese oldies said that we must put some "MUST" things on our wardrobe such as :
1. A pair of Swan, which mean a longlast marriage till death make us apart
2. Grandpa and Grandma statue, which mean together from young until we are already old
3. Sewing-set, to prepare us for being a good care wife in future
4. And so much many many more.. Haha.. I will update later..

For your information, this is my wardrobe and I make it by myself. For those who want me to beautify your wardrobe in Medan City, Indonesia, you can call me then.

Blessed Life

I will first introduce myself first. I am the only daughter from my mom and dad. I was born on 1990 and my Zodiac is Leo. You guess what? I am also A Type blood. Can you guess it already?? Haha.. Many people say I am too perfectionist and also stubborn. Yes, I do. But I still learning until today.
I got married on September 2016. And I enjoy my life being with my ex-boyfriend, now my husband. He always encourage me in doing anything. And he never make any complaints about me, because he said he want to accept all my bad and good things, just like what we said on our wedding day. And so do I.

Love your partner inconditionally is thing that I learn from my marriage. I have such a loving husband and I am beyond blessed. God has chosen a perfect guy for me, to handle my anger, my stubborn, and many more.

Today, we are already 6 months being together and I have already learnt so much things from him. That he'd never give up on me.

Many people ask whether I'm already pregnant or not. But he never care. He said that he love me for all I am. So I choose to ignore some question about "that" (Hahaha.. So, stop asking me, Okay?)

This is my husband's big family. Not so big actually. Haha. And now I'm living with them too.

So, here is my simple description about my marriage life.